Come back next week for a practice question related to this topic!
When used properly, the skill of self-disclosure helps a client feel more comfortable with you and can make it easier for him to talk about sensitive topics. Conversely, the improper use of self-disclosure during any phase of intervention can cause a client to question your emotional stability and professional competence and even cause him to feel manipulated. Important guidelines for using the skill of self-disclosure include the following:
- As a general rule, you should avoid self-disclosure in the early stages of a helping relationship. On the other hand, you may use a low to moderate level of self-disclosure early in the relationship if you believe that doing so would be effective for reducing a client’s defensiveness.
- Normally you would not self-disclose until rapport has developed, and the client has indicated a readiness to interact with you on a more personal level. Cultural issues are also significant, since people from other cultures may be uncomfortable relating to a social worker on a personal level.
- Self-disclosure during any phase of intervention should be limited to statements that are likely to support the treatment goals and objectives. You should self-disclose only when doing so is likely to increase the client’s comfort or promote his growth in some way.
- The information you reveal should always have a clear connection to the client’s concerns.
- Because your primary focus should be the client’s needs, after self-disclosing, you should immediately shift the attention back to the client.